Department of Communities and Justice & Mangal

Case

[2021] FamCA 118

9 March 2021


FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA

Department of Communities and Justice & Mangal [2021] FamCA 118

File number(s): SYC 8105/2020
Judgment of: BENNETT J
Date of judgment: 9 March 2021
Catchwords: FAMILY LAW – CHILD ABDUCTION – Hague Return Application – facilitation of safe return to the United Kingdom
Legislation:

Convention of 25 October 1980 on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction

Evidence Act 1995 (Cth)

Family Law (Child Abduction Convention) Regulations 1986 (Cth)

Cases cited:

Director General, Department of Families, Youth & Community Care &Thorpe (1997) FLC 92-785

HZ & State Central Authority [2006] FamCA 446

In Re B (a minor) (habitual residence) [2016] EWHC 2174 (Fam)

Kardos & Harmon [2020] FamCA 328

M (Children) (Habitual Residence: 1980 Hague Child Abduction Convention) [2020] EWCA Civ 1105

McGregor & McGregor [2012] FamCAFC 69

MW v Director General, Department of Community Services (2008) 244 ALR 205

Re B (A child) (Habitual Residence: Inherent Jurisdiction) [2016] UKSC 4

Re C and another (Children) International Centre for Family Law, Policy and Practice intervening) [2018] UKSC 8

Re L and B (Children) [2013] UKSC 8

Re S (A Minor) (Custody: Habitual Residence) [1998] AC 750

Re S (Minors) (Abduction: Wrongful Retention) [1994] 1 FLR 82

State Central Authority & Handbury [2020] FamCA 668

State Central Authority & Metin [2020] FamCA 535

TB v JB [2000] EWCA Civ 337

Wenceslas and Director-General Department of Community Services [2007] FamCA 398

Number of paragraphs: 172
Date of hearing: 16 December 2020
Place: Melbourne
Counsel for the Applicant: Mr Gould
Solicitor for the Applicant: Department of Communities and Justice
Counsel for the Respondent: Ms Goodchild
Solicitor for the Respondent: Hague Convention Legal Practice
Counsel for the Independent Children's Lawyer: Mr Moore
Solicitor for the Independent Children's Lawyer: Legal Aid New South Wales

ORDERS

SYC 8105/2020
BETWEEN:

DEPARTMENT OF COMMUNITIES AND JUSTICE

Applicant

AND:

MS MANGAL

Respondent

INDEPENDENT CHILDREN'S LAWYER

ORDER MADE BY:

BENNETT J

DATE OF ORDER:

9 MARCH 2021

THE COURT ORDERS THAT:

IT IS ORDERED THAT:

Return order

1.The application filed by the NSW Department of Communities and Justice (“the applicant”) on 11 November 2020 be granted, and the child X born … 2011 (“the child”) be returned to the United Kingdom, as soon as practicable, pursuant to Regulation 16(1) of the Family Law (Child Abduction Convention) Regulations 1986, the United Kingdom being the child’s state of habitual residence.

Injunctions pending return

2.Pending the child’s departure from Australia for the return to the United Kingdom, orders 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6 of the orders made on 19 November 2020 remain in force.

The father’s travel to Australia

3.The applicant is to liaise with the father in respect of arrangements for him to book and pay for an economy flight from the United Kingdom to Australia.

4.That within 7 days of the applicant receiving confirmation of the father’s flight details and expected date of arrival in Australia, the applicant provide a copy of the father’s ticket and itinerary to the respondent and the independent children’s lawyer.

The father’s quarantine in Australia

5.The respondent be and is hereby responsible for the reasonable cost of compulsory quarantine for the father consequent upon his arrival in Australia and, for that purpose, within 7 days of being provided with a copy invoice for the cost of the father’s compulsory quarantine, the respondent transfer funds to the father in the amount specified in the invoice NOTING that it was indicated that the cost will be in the vicinity of $3,000.

6.During the period in which the father is in quarantine, the mother and the father do all acts and things necessary to facilitate communication between the father and the child for at least 15 minutes each day, using Facebook video messenger (or similar) at a time agreed between the father and the respondent or, failing agreement, at 5.00pm (AEST).

Travel to the United Kingdom

7.The applicant liaise with the father in respect of arrangements for him to book economy flights for himself and the child, from Australia to the United Kingdom, on a route that does not include travel through a country on the travel ban red list or that would otherwise result in the child and/or the father being required to spend time in hotel quarantine upon re-entry into the United Kingdom.

8.Within 48 hours of the applicant receiving confirmation of the booking details for the return flight, the applicant provide a copy of the tickets and itinerary to the respondent and the independent children’s lawyer.

9.For the purpose of the child being returned to England, England being the child’s state of habitual residence, the mother and the applicant do all acts and things necessary to place the child be placed into the care of the father, as follows:

(a)The handover take place in New South Wales not less than three days prior to the scheduled departure of the flight to the United Kingdom (or in the event that there are not three clear days between the father’s release from quarantine and the scheduled departure of the flight, upon his release from quarantine).

(b)The applicant liaise with the respondent and the father in relation to the logistics of the handover including a suitable venue and time. In the event that there is no agreement, handover will take place in New South Wales at a venue and time to be nominated by the applicant.

(c)The respondent be responsible for making arrangements for the child to attend the venue agreed or nominated for handover to take place.

10.If the respondent does not bring the child to the venue for handover, at the agreed or stipulated time in accordance with order 9(c) above, the applicant be at liberty to make an urgent application for a Warrant for the Apprehension or Detention of the Child to issue, pursuant to regulations 14, 15 and 31 of the Family Law (Child Abduction Convention) Regulations 1986, authorising and directing the Marshal of the Family Court of Australia and the Commissioner and all Federal Agents of the Australian Federal Police and Officers of the New South Wales Police Force and all other Police Officers in all other states and territories of the Commonwealth to find and recover the child, and to deliver the child to the father or caseworkers or managers employed by the Department of Communities and Justice.

11.If the period between the father’s release from quarantine and the scheduled departure of the flight to the United Kingdom is greater than three days, and the father is able and willing to travel to Northern New South Wales, unless otherwise agreed in writing between the respondent and the father:

(a)The child is to spend time with his father for a period of not less than two hours, every second day;

(b)The father will nominate a venue for time to occur that is not further than a 30 minute drive from the respondent’s current residential address and advise the respondent in writing;

(c)The respondent will transport the child to and from the venue, and

(d)The child’s time with his father shall not occur during school hours.

12.The respondent be restrained by herself, her servants or agents from from being at or within 10 kilometres of the airport from which the child’s flight is booked to depart Australia for the period of 12 hours before and after the scheduled departure time.

13.That the name of the child, X (male) born … 2011, be removed from the Family Law Watch List in operation at all Australian international points of arrival and departure to allow the child to board the scheduled flight from Australia to the United Kingdom AND IT IS REQUESTED that the Australian Federal Police give effect to this order by removing the name of the child from the Airport Watch List upon presentation of the child for boarding.

Cost of air travel

14.Within 48 hours of the date of these orders, the respondent is to apply for a refund of the return ticket that she holds for both herself and the child to fly from Brisbane to London on R Airlines, and provide confirmation that she has done so to the applicant and the independent children’s lawyer.

15.The respondent mother be and is hereby restrained by injunction from causing, permitting or suffering the unused portion of the return air tickets to be dealt with other than as provided in paragraph 14 of this Order AND IT IS DIRECTED that a copy of this Order be served on the proper officer of R Airlines by the applicant State Central Authority, such service to be effected electronically and as soon as possible.

16.Within 48 hours of receiving any refund from R Airlines, the respondent transfer those funds to the father (unless she has already complied with paragraph 17 below) and provide confirmation to the applicant and the independent children’s lawyer that she has done so.

17.Within 7 days of receiving a copy of the tickets referred to in orders 4 and 8, the respondent reimburse the father for the cost of his quarantine and return ticket from London to Sydney or Brisbane, and for the cost of the child’s ticket to London. The total cost will be reduced by any money the mother has already transferred to the father in accordance with paragraph 5 and 16 of this Order.

Passports

18.In furtherance to paragraph 6 of the orders of her Honour Justice Williams made on 19 November 2020, within 7 days of this order the mother surrender all current passports relating to the child (including the child’s Australian and British passports) to the Brisbane or Sydney Registry of the Family Court of Australia.

19.The Registrar of the Court release the child’s passport to the applicant and the applicant be responsible for ensuring that the passport is available to the child and the father within good time to travel.

Other orders

20.That there be liberty to each of the applicant, respondent and independent children’s lawyer to apply urgently to relist the matter in relation to implementation of this order and in respect of any machinery provisions.

21.The independent children’s lawyer is discharged upon the child departing Australia.

22.That the name of the respondent, Ms Mangal (formerly Ms B) born … 1975, be removed from the Family Law Watch List in operation at all Australian international points of arrival and departure following the child’s departure on the scheduled flight from Australia to the United Kingdom AND IT IS REQUESTED that the Australian Federal Police give effect to this order by removing the name of the respondent from the Airport Watch List upon the departure of the child.

23.In the event that any proceedings (including contravention proceedings or proceedings relating to child support) are instituted in relation to the child in the Family Court of Australia within three years from the date of these orders, the parties to those proceedings (or any of them) be at liberty to seek that the application be listed before her Honour Justice Bennett for directions as soon as practicable with a view to having the proceedings determined without delay.

IT IS DIRECTED:

24.That the minute be marked Exhibit “C1” and remain on the Court file.

IT IS FURTHER ORDERED THAT:

25.The application of the Department of Communities and Justice be and is hereby otherwise dismissed and the matter removed from the docket of the Honourable Justice Bennett.

Note:   The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court’s records.

Note: This copy of the Court’s Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 17.02A(b) of the Family Law Rules 2004 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to 17.02 Family Law Rules 2004 (Cth).

IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under the pseudonym Mangal has been approved by the Chief Justice pursuant to s 121(9)(g) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).

REASONS FOR JUDGMENT

Introduction

[1]

Issues for determination

[8]

Onus of proof

[12]

Standard of proof

[15]

Findings of fact

[16]

Electronic Court Book

[17]

Evidence & credibility

[18]

Relevant history

[27]

Regulation 26 Report

[80]

Was X retained by the mother on 4 July 2020?

[83]

Was X habitually resident in the United Kingdom on the alleged date of wrongful retention, namely, 4 July 2020 within the meaning of reg 16(1A)(b)?

[103]

Did the father consent to the mother’s retention of X in Australia, within the meaning of reg 16(3)(a)(ii) on 20 March 2020 or otherwise?

[120]

Would the returning of X to the United Kingdom expose X to a grave risk of harm or otherwise place X in an intolerable situation within in the meaning of reg 16(3)(b)?

[134]

Conditions to return

[145]

The exercise of the discretion to refuse return in the event that I had found either or both exceptions to mandatory return to be engaged (which I do not)

[151]

Mediation

[152]

Form of final order

[156]

Conditions on return

[162]

Cost of return

[164]

Location of handover and port for return

[166]

Covid-19

[168]

Start of the English school year

[171]

Conclusion

[172]

INTRODUCTION

  1. By application filed on 11 November 2020, the Department of Communities and Justice for NSW (“State Central Authority”, “SCA” or “the applicant”) applies for the return of X born in 2011 to the United Kingdom pursuant to reg 14 of the Family Law (Child Abduction Convention) Regulations 1986 (“the Regulations”). The Regulations give effect to Australia’s obligations under the Convention of 25 October 1980 on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (“the 1980 Convention”) which entered into force between Australia and the United Kingdom on 1 January 1987. 

  2. The application is made on the request of the father, Mr C (“father” or “requesting parent”) against the respondent mother, Ms Mangal (“mother” or “respondent”).  The mother and the father are jointly referred to as “the parents”.

  3. On 24 November 2020, I requested that an Independent Children's Lawyer be appointed to represent X’s interests.  In due course, Ms Phillips, solicitor, was appointed of Legal Aid New South Wales.  She has done an exemplary job.  She has demonstrated a keen awareness of the role of an Independent Children's Lawyer in a Hague return application. 

  4. The hearing proceeded for one day on the Court’s Microsoft Teams platform.  There was no oral evidence or cross examination of any witnesses.  The requesting parent in London was able to observe the proceedings from London.

  5. X’s father, Mr C, consented to the mother taking X out of the United Kingdom to accompany her on a three month visit to Australia from 11 January 2020 until 13 April 2020.  The SCA’s application alleges that on 13 April 2020 the mother wrongfully retained X in Australia.  On 11 December 2020, the mother filed an answer and cross-application in which she opposed the return of X to the United Kingdom.  The respondent mother records her opposition to return as including, “at the time the child was retained in Australia the child was habitually resident in Australia”.  At an early mention before me on 30 November 2020, the legal practitioner for the respondent mother conceded that, as at 13 April 2020, X was not habitually resident in Australia and that all threshold (jurisdictional) facts were met.  At that juncture it was considered that the mother would have carriage of the proceedings because the State Central Authority had established wrongful retention and a prima facie case for mandatory return.

  6. By way of exceptions to return, the mother relied on what she alleged was X’s objection to being returned to the United Kingdom within the meaning of reg 16(3)(c) and alleged that his  return to the United Kingdom would expose him to a grave risk of physical or psychological harm or otherwise place him in an intolerable situation within the meaning of reg 16(3)(b).  In the alternative, the respondent mother was prepared “to consent to an order requiring the child to be returned to the United Kingdom providing that the following arrangements are put in place to receive the child”:

    (a)a delay of X’s return to London until lockdown had been lifted;

    (b)that the father provide evidence of having appropriate housing and a bedroom for X;

    (c)that X could be registered in a school, that universal credit is in place to maintain X;

    (d)the return date be arranged when the number of COVID cases in London has reduced significantly and lockdown is over; and

    (e)that, in any event, “X not return before the athletics season ends in March 2021.”

  7. The mother also sought a parenting plan be perfected: “So X knows what contact there will be with me moving forward”.  Finally, the mother sought an order that the father:

    …demonstrates that he is mentally and physically able to look after X, given his disability, Autism, and unemployment status.  This might be demonstrated by a psychological report and Personal Independence Payment disability assessment.  I believe he had such an assessment earlier this year and his benefits were increased as a result.

    ISSUES FOR DETERMINATION

  8. Within a short time of the final hearing commencing before me, the applicant SCA and the respondent each altered their positions.  The applicant State Central Authority amended its position to allege a wrongful retention as at 4 July 2020 (rather than 13 April 2020).  The mother abandoned her allegation that X objects to return to the United Kingdom but added that the father had consented to X remaining in Australia as a further exception to mandatory return.   

  9. In the result, the following issues now fall for determination:

    (a)Was there a retention by the mother on 4 July 2020?

    (b)Was X habitually resident in the United Kingdom on the alleged date of wrongful retention, namely, 4 July 2020, within the meaning of reg 16(1A)(b)?

    (c)Did the father consent to the mother’s retention of X in Australia, within the meaning of reg 16(3)(a)(ii) on 20 March 2020 or otherwise?;

    (d)Would the return of X to the United Kingdom expose X to a grave risk of harm or otherwise place X in an intolerable situation within in the meaning of r 16(3)(b)?

    (e)If either of the exceptions for which the mother contends (consent and grave risk) is made out, should I exercise my discretion to refuse return?

  10. The issue of habitual residence is a jurisdictional fact.  If I am satisfied that X has acquired habitual residence in Australia by 4 July 2020, the retention would not be wrongful and the return application must be dismissed.  If X was habitually resident in the United Kingdom as at 4 July 2020, the mother’s retention would be wrongful. 

  11. If the retention is wrongful, the mother relies on consent and grave risk as exceptions to mandatory return.  If either or both exceptions are held to apply, the Court has a discretion to refuse return (see reg 16(3)).  

    ONUS OF PROOF

  12. The applicant SCA bears the onus of proving the jurisdictional facts which are the necessary elements of a “wrongful” retention.  Here the elements are whether there was a retention and, if there was, X’s habitual residence at that date.  The balance of jurisdictional facts, pertaining to X’s age, the father’s rights of custody, the exercise of rights of custody etc. are admitted.

  1. The respondent mother bears the onus of proving the exceptions of grave risk and intolerable situation and that, as at the date of the alleged wrongful retention, the father had given his consent to X remaining in Australia.

  2. On the issue of the exercise of any discretion I may have to refuse return, the parties bear the onus of proving the facts which support the outcome for which they contend.

    STANDARD OF PROOF

  3. As required by section 140 of the Evidence Act 1995 (Cth) I will apply the balance of probabilities as the standard of proof.

    FINDINGS OF FACT

  4. In these reasons, a statement of fact is a finding of fact.

    ELECTRONIC COURT BOOK

  5. This matter was ordered to proceed with an Electronic Court Book.  All parties cooperated in the preparation of the Electronic Court Book.  Where an Electronic Court Book is to be used, it is incumbent on all relevant practitioners to ensure that he or she is proficient in the use of the Electronic Court Book before the trial commences.  Practitioners are also required to ensure that any witness whom it is contemplated could be referred to a document whilst giving evidence can at least navigate the Electronic Court Book.  Fortunately, whilst counsel in this case were caught unawares, they had the good humour and professionalism to learn in the job.

    EVIDENCE & CREDIBILITY

  6. The State Central Authority relies on:

    (a)Form 2 Application filed 11 November 2020 which annexes:

    (i)Affidavit of Ms D affirmed 11 November 2020;

    (ii)Affidavit of Ms E apparently sworn August 2020, who is a solicitor of the Supreme Court of the judicature in England and Wales; and

    (iii)Affidavit of Mr C, sworn 17 July 2020.

    (b)Ms D’s affidavit affirmed 15 December 2020 which annexes the father’s affidavit at annexure “A” being an affidavit sworn on 14 December 2020.

  7. The respondent mother relies on:

    (a)Form 2A Response filed 11 December 2020;

    (b)Affidavit of Ms Mangal filed 11 December 2020; and

    (c)Affidavit of Ms F filed 11 December 2020.

  8. Regulation 26 provides that the Court may direct a Family Consultant to undertake an assessment and to report to the Court on such matters as the Court considers to be appropriate and for the Court to receive the report into evidence.  A Family Consultant is an expert psychologist or social worker with a high level of training and experience in child development and parenting after separation and divorce.  Family Consultants are employed directly and exclusively by the family courts’[1] Child Dispute Services, which is located within the Registry. 

    [1] The Family Court of Australia is the superior court and the Federal Circuit Court of Australia is the trial court.

  9. A Regulation 26 Report by Family Consultant Ms S prepared on 4 December 2020 deals with X’s alleged objection to return (as then alleged by the mother).  The reg 26 report is in evidence.  The Family Consultant was not required for cross examination by any of the parties.  I will return to the reg 26 report later in these reasons.

  10. Regulation 29(2) provides that any document attached to or given in support of the State Central Authority’s application is admissible as evidence of the facts stated in the application.  The applicant State Central Authority extended the same latitude to the respondent mother which rendered documents obtained from X’s school admissible.  It was a fair and reasonable course for the applicant to take as a model litigant.

  11. There were also a number of exhibits.

  12. There is not much evidence in dispute which is relevant to the determination of the case.  The court allowed time for cross examination but no party sought to cross examine any other party’s witness.  Most of the evidence upon which the mother and applicant SCA rely is correspondence passing between the parents and is self-explanatory.  I have set out their communications extensively in these reasons.  I make no findings of credibility.

  13. Neither parent impressed me as being disingenuous, deceptive or as lying to achieve an advantage in the proceedings.  They present very differently from one another.  The factual discrepancy over the extent of the father’s forbearance for X to remain in Australia when the return flight to the United Kingdom was cancelled, is not referrable to one parent being less honest than the other.  Each gave evidence from their recollections and impressions.  Both believe that what he/she deposes to is correct.  Evidence of this nature is always subjective and the parents are people with very different attitudes to one another.

  14. The parents have very different writing styles to one another.  My impression is that the father’s frank and straightforward style of expression is more accessible and provides a more reliable record than the mother’s style which is considered and reflective but frequently not responsive.

    RELEVANT HISTORY

  15. The father was born in Country BB and is 53 years old.  The mother was born in Australia and is 45 years old.  The mother’s name at birth was Ms G which has now been changed to Ms Mangal.  In 1986, the father moved from Country BB to London.  In 1996 the mother travelled to Europe for six months and then settled in London where she subsequently married and divorced. 

  16. The mother says that she met the father at a festival in August 2007, whereas the father’s evidence is that he met the mother at music festival in England in 2010.  Nothing turns on this discrepancy.  The mother’s evidence goes into detail about the father’s shock at her pregnancy and his disinclination to become a father which, in the context of this case, is also not relevant.

  17. X was born in 2011 in England.  The mother and X moved to J Town in November 2011.  The father spent time with X regularly on weekends as well as for extended periods of four, five or six weeks when the mother travelled and the father moved into her residence to care for X.  The first extended period was for four weeks whilst the mother travelled out of England and the father cared for X in the mother’s home.  In July 2016, the mother left X in the care of the father for five weeks, in her home.  Later in 2016, the mother and father jointly took X to India for a holiday for five weeks.  In November 2018, the mother travelled to Australia for six weeks, leaving X in the care of the father again in her home.  During this time the father expressed his exasperation and exhaustion at looking after X without assistance.  The father has high functioning autism.  His written expression is spontaneous and unguarded.

  18. In December 2018, the mother informed the father that she wanted to relocate to Australia.  The father was not agreeable.  In January 2019, the mother instituted proceedings in the Family Court in Y City, N County, United Kingdom, for permission to relocate X’s residence to Australia on a permanent basis.  The maternal grandmother had supported the father’s opposition to the mother’s relocation application.  The maternal grandmother, Ms F, resides in V City in Queensland, Australia.  The maternal grandmother wrote a letter for the UK relocation proceedings which is annexed to the father’s affidavit which is annexed to the Form 2.  The letter reads:

    … I am aware that [my daughter] is keen to return to Australia after 23 years in the UK and I would be very pleased to have her closer if it weren’t for the fact that her son, X, would be taken away from his father, Mr C.

    If X’s father had played no part in his life or was a dead beat I would be wholeheartedly behind her move to Australia, but X has had a very close and loving relationship with his dad since the day he was born and continued to do so.

    Both Ms B and Mr C are very good parents and although Ms B is X’s primary carer, Mr C plays an extremely important role in X’s life. I believe that a good loving father is so important to a child and it would seem crazy to take a child away from such a dad.

    I have been the position of being able to visit Ms B and X once or twice a year since X was born but if Ms B moved back to Australia I don’t think Mr C would be in a similar position to visit.

    […]

    While I sympathise with Ms B’s wish to return to Australia, I cannot support it at this time. I feel that such a move would be detrimental to X’s well-being. He may learn to cope with the separation from his dad in time; I don’t think he would thrive.

    […]

  19. The maternal grandmother’s evidence painted a picture of the father’s involvement in X’s life which differs significantly from the mother’s description.

  20. On 7 March 2019, Cafcass provided a letter to the Y City Family Court Hearing Centre:

    The subject of this application is X (7). The applicant mother Ms Mangal applied to the court for a Specific Issue Order to remove X from the jurisdiction and relocate to Australia on a permanent basis. The respondent father is Mr C.  X lives with Ms Mangal and spends time with Mr C.

    According to our records the family have not been previously known to Cafcass.

    The C100 and attached documents raise no safeguarding concerns

    Safeguarding

    Police

    Neither party have a police trace

    Local Authority

    The family are unknown to the Royal Borough of Suburb CC

    T Services

    2011- Initial assessment following referral from midwife Ms Mangal had gone against medical advice and discharged herself wanting to have her baby at home. Assessment concluded. Case closed.

    2018 – School referral regarding concern from parent X may have forced a girl to engage in sexual activity – enquiries undertaken – both children had limited knowledge about their behaviours. No further action.

    Summary of any risk identification contacts made by Cafcass

    Both parties have contacted Cafcass to confirm Ms Mangal has withdrawn her application [for relocation].

    Mr C advised Cafcass the parties will be engaging in mediation.

  21. The mother deposes to discontinuing her application to relocate X to Australia in February 2019 because she decided that “for X’s sake [she] should keep living in England for at least a few more years.”[2]

    [2] Mother’s affidavit signed 11 December 2020, [60].

  22. In July/August 2019 the mother decided to move from her dwelling in J Town and enrolled X at a different school, being L School in M Town, N County, to commence on 21 April 2020. 

  23. On 15 September 2019, the mother sent the father an email asking him, amongst other things, whether he would be interested in renting her home for a year, and, “Sharing child care half the time with X?”

  24. On 24 September 2019, the mother sent the father an email confirming that she had booked flights to Australia departing 11 January 2020 and returning on 13 April 2020. 

  25. On 3 October 2019, the father sent the mother an email setting out the terms of his agreement for X to travel to Australia for a holiday.  The father wrote:

    Hi  Ms Mangal.  I  just  wanted  to  be  clear  about  Australia  and  have  it  on  record  that  I was  with  this  email.

    I am  only  giving  permission  for  you  to  take  X  to  Australia  for  three  months  and not  a  day  more.

    I can’t and  won't  accept  any  changes  to  the  plan  no  matter  what  the  circumstances are.  Whether  it's job  related  for  you,  school  related  for X,  as  in,  "he  is  doing  well  in school  out  here  so  best  allow  him  to  finish  it  by  staying  in  Australia  for  remaining year".  It  can't  be  family  related  or  work  related  or  don't  have  a  house  to  come  back to  related  etc.

    Jam  not  suggesting  that  you  are  going  to  act  in  this  manner  and  try  and  pull  a  fast one when  you  are  out  there,  i  am  simply  protecting  myself  and  X  by  being  clear as  opposed  to  not.

    Given  what  happened  earlier  this  year I  am  forced  to  act  like  this  so  please understand.

    Also,  if  1am  planning  on  moving  closer  to  X  i  would  really  like  a  response  to  the text  i  sent  about  home  education.  I  am his  dad  with  equal  say  so  please  respect  and give me your views on it.

  26. As matters have developed, the father’s correspondence was prescient.

  27. The mother replied to the father’s letter on 4 October 2019, as follows:

    Regarding  homeschooling,  I  am  not  in  a  position  to  commit  to  anything.  I  need  to  feel  into  it  closer  to  the  time  and  look  into  all  the  variables.  Right  now,  I  don't  feel  it  would  work  or  be  in X's  best  interest.

    We  have  return  tickets  for  13  April,  so  I  don't  intend  to  stay  longer.

  28. The father responded the next day:

    Ok  cool,  we  can  talk  about  it  next  year.  I  don’t think  school  is  going  to  suit  X  but  anyhow,  let's see.

  29. In November 2019, the mother put her home in J Town in the United Kingdom on the market for sale and it was subsequently sold.

  30. The mother and X left England bound for Australia on 11 January 2020 and the mother left her house, which was subject to an incomplete contract of purchase, full of furniture. 

  31. On 29 January 2020, X commenced school at K School in W Town which was the beginning of the Australian school year.  W Town is about one hour drive from the maternal grandmother’s residence in V City.  It is my impression that the parents would expect that X attends school wherever he is located.

  32. In February 2020, the mother entered into a contract to purchase a home in W Town which she then rented until she completed the sale in May 2020. 

  33. On 14 February 2020, the mother sent the father a message proposing that he become a primary carer for X.  By this stage, X had only been in Australia for one month.  The mother wrote:

    I am  writing  to  share  my  thoughts  about  me,  X,  our  living  situation,  schooling  etc.

    We  are  in  quite  a  massive  time  of  transition  with  selling  the  house,  being  here  for  a  few  months, X  starting  at  L School  and  looking  to  move  house  on  our  return.  Being  back  in  Australia  has confirmed  to  me  that  I  need  to  be  here  more,  Of  course  it's  not  new,  it's  been  here  for  a  few  years.

    The  difference  now  is  I  feel  it  may  be  time  that  X  lives  with  you  for  a  period.  You've  said  many times  that  you  would  be  happy  to  have  X  live  with  you  and I feel  it  would  be  good  for  X  to be  with  you  at  this  age,  which  would  also  allow  me  to  follow  my  heart  and  live  here  some  of  the year.  X  could  also  spend  some  time  here  with  me.  I  know  he  would  be  happy  as  long  as  he  can see  both  of  us.

    Once  I  complete  on  the  house  and  move  out  mid-May  I  don't  feel  to  lock  myself  into  a  lease. Rather,  I  am  feeling  to  live  out  of  the  van  over  the  summer  whilst  I  sort  things  out  and  then  come back  to  Australia  for  a  period.  Maybe  I can  stay  in  the  van,  then  X  can  keep  his connections  with  the  kids  in  the  community.

    As  the  primary  carer,  you  would  be  entitled  to  housing,  child  benefit,  child  tax  credit  and  council tax  reduction  on  top  of  ESA  which  would  allow  you  to  get  a  2  bedroom  place  for  you  and  X.

    So,  I  just  wanted  to  write  to  you  to  express  where  I’m at  and  give  you  space  to  sit  with  it.  If  it  feels good  for  you,  we  can  talk  more  and  sit  together  with  X  once  we  are  clear  about  how  this  could happen,  for  what  period  etc,  I  am  happy  to  sign  an  agreement  so  you  have  some  security  and peace  of  mind.

  34. On 17 and 18 March 2020, the father and mother discussed the COVID-19 pandemic and the imposition of travel restrictions between the United Kingdom and Australia.  The father sent the mother three messages on 18 March 2020:

    By  the  way  if  you  do  get  stranded  in  oz  don't  go  renting  a  place  for  more  than  one  month  at  a  time. Once  the  restrictions  are  lifted  I  want  X  home  and  no  excuses  like  “I have  signed  a  six  month contract” etc  is  going  to  change  my  mind.  If X  ends up  three  more  months  in  oz  then  lam  not letting  him  go  next  year.  Too  much  time  away  from  dad  is  not  good.  X  anyhow  hopefully  It will  all  be okay

    Ms Mangal I  want  you  to  bring  X  home  in  case  the  world  shuts  down. I  know  you  think  it’s all serving  your  needs  right  now  but  it  changes  nothing.  The  f X [sic]  ends  up  a  year  in  oz  he  will  never  be let  go  again.  And  it  won't  favour  you  in  a  court  either  by  saying  he  is  used  to  living  there  now  etc

    I  know  it is  difficult  but  you  already  told  a  lie  in  front  of  X  in  regards  saying  your  area  was  safe.  Don't  try  and  paint  a  clear  picture  of  oz  just  to  get  your  way  when  my  son  is  part  of  the  picture. Transparency  only  please.  If  you  are  forced  to  stay  in  oz  then fair  enough  but  I  will  be  checking  up, on  why.  I will  check  to  see  if  you  could  have  made  it  back  etc

  35. On 20 March 2020, the mother and father had a discussion on Facebook, with the mother writing:

    We are safe, we are relaxed and well. We have family nearby and somewhere to live. I can extend where we are and take it week by week.

    There is no game here [Mr C]. I planned only to come for 3 months. None of us knew this would happen.  We are here now and need to do what’s best given the global chaos.

    It will all work ok and when we get back we will work out a plan together.

    In the meantime, let’s stay calm and deal with what’s here now.

  36. The father replied on 19 March 2020:

    Okay fair enough. Do what you have to do to best serve you and X remaining safe. It’s hard for me to keep saying when governments are saying travel might be stopped for months etc. at a time of crisis it is a nightmare of emotional street [sic] wanting your child near. X [sic] I appreciate you having to stay if that is how it is.

    The mother relies on this communication as the father’s consent to X remaining in Australia until the COVID-19 Pandemic has passed.  Furthermore, having allegedly given that consent, he cannot now withdraw it.

  37. On 20 March 2020, Australia went into lockdown in response to the COVID-19 pandemic and the mother and child’s return flight to the United Kingdom on 13 April 2020 was cancelled.  The mother raised delaying her and child’s return to the United Kingdom “until the COVID-19 situation settled down in Australia and England.” 

  38. On 29 March 2020, the father wrote to the mother:

    Hi  Ms Mangal.  I  am  just  going  to  relay  this  point  to  be  clear  about  everything.  I  am  not  suggesting  you are  intending  this,  but  I  want  you  to  be  clear  with  things.  It  could  be  claimed  that  you  are  employing a  tactic.  You  create  a  problem  by  buying  a  house  over  there  and  then  you  can  claim:  that  you  don't have  money  to  live  now  in  England.  Everyone  then  is  forced  to  bend  to  your  problem  and  somehow oblige  you  by  working  around  it.  The  court  will  see  this  as  contempt  of  the  law.  If  it  worked  every woman  who  wants  to  move  somewhere  would  just  go  and  ignore  the  court  etc.  By  suggesting  X  is settled  there  now  too  won't  work  either.  A court  will  work  on behalf  of  what  the  kid  needs  but  in  this case you  will  be  called  out  for  creating  the  problem  in  the  first  place.  There  is  basically  no  alternative to  coming  home  with  X  to  live  in  England  until  we  decide  what  way  to  move  forward.  I  will  not  shy away  from  using  the  court  if I have too  and  no  amount  of  problems  that  you  have  created  will  sway me.  Again  I  am  not  intending  court  and  I  know  you  are  coming  back.  I  just  wanted  you  to  be  clear because  I  am. 

  39. The mother responded:

    [Mr C]  There  are  no  problems  I  have  created,  just  the  uncertainty  of  life.  We  are  in  a  constantly changing  situation  because  of  the  virus.  What I  thought  was  solid yesterday  has  changed  today. Anyway it's  not  your  concern.  We  will  be  back  when  we  can.  I  am  not  trying  to  do  anything  other than  keep  us  well,  housed,  happy  and  safe  until  we  can  do  so.

  1. On 5 April 2020, the father wrote to the mother:

    Morning.  I  want  you  to  please  make  a  heart  felt  conscious  effort  to  get  X  home  ASAP.  Once  the trend  over  here  turns  I  want  you  to  book  a  flight.  No  excuses  for  staying  there  please.  The  world  is changing  and  soon  planes  could  be  down  for  a  year.  I  know  you  will  be  thinking  about  what  you  are coming  back  to.  The  country  is  in  trouble  etc  so  what  are  you  to  do.  But  none  of  that  matters.  I  want my  son  home.  The  courts  have  already  said  that  the  virus  cannot  be  used  to  keep  parents  apart from  their  kids.  I  am  not  suggesting  you  are  doing  that.  I  just  want  you  act  and  come  home  soon.  It is unnatural  for  me  to  be  outside  of  X  now  and  vice  versa.

  2. On 8 April 2020, the father wrote two emails to the mother:

    Hope  you  are  well.  Just  checking  the  news.  Virus  is  now  peaking  in  England  so  hopefully  will  start  to fall  by  end  of  next  week.  Might  be  a  good  idea  to  start  thinking  about  fights  back  for  around  end  of April.  Xx  let  me  know  what  you  are  thinking  about  doing  in  regards  coming  back.

    Actually  sorry  its  going  to  peak April  17,  So  maybe  you  could  be  home  for  early  may.  Preferably before  X’s  birthday

  3. The mother replied on 9 April 2020:

    In  response  to  your  message,  I  know  you  were  hoping  that  we  could  return  soon.  However nothing  has  changed  from  a  couple  of  weeks  ago  (in  fact  it's  got  worse)  and  I  am  not  intending  or able to  fly  back  during  lockdown  in  Australia/UK.  Everything  is  too  unstable  at  the  moment.

    Rebooking  flights  is  not  possible  in  any  case  as  R Airlines  have  suspended  flights  until  further  notice and  I can’t get  through  to  the  travel  agent.

    I know  it is  really  hard  for  you  to  be  so  far  away  from  X  and  to  miss  his  birthday  but  please know  that  we  are  safe,  healthy  and  grounded  in  a  calm  place  with  family  support  nearby  if  needed. I am  doing  everything  I  can  to  maintain  stable  ground  for  me  and  X  during  a  time  of  great global  instability  and  fear.

    We  will  just  have  to  wait  and  see  what  unfolds  with  the  corona  pandemic.

    In  the  meantime,  I  would  like  to  work  towards  a  shared  parenting  agreement  that  allows  for  me  to be  in  Australia.  Can  you  let  me  know  the  two  options  that  you  had  in  mind.  Where  did  you  get  to with  looking  into  benefits  and  housing?

    If you  want  to  talk  via  messenger  we  can  do  so  in  the  evening  after  X's  gone  to  bed  (between 11am and  midday  your  time).

    Please  don’t message  me  about  your  concerns  on  FB  Messenger.  I  don't  feel  it's  appropriate  for X  to  be  reading,  especially  if  you  are  venting,  accusing  or  blaming,  I will  not  respond.  it's  your responsibility  to  hold  yourself  through  this,  as  it is  for  everyone,  We  are  all  in  the  same  boat.  Please use email if  you  want  to  write.

  4. In its Form 2 Application, the State Central Authority particularised 13 April 2020 as the date of wrongful retention.  This was the date advised by the mother to the father on 24 September 2019 as the date of the return flights back to the United Kingdom for herself and X.  Before me, the applicant SCA altered its position to allege that 4 July 2020 was the date of wrongful retention.

  5. On 16 April 2020, the father sent the mother a WhatsApp message asking the mother to make plans and book plane tickets back to the United Kingdom.  He asked the mother to not “put it off for a day longer than you need to please”.  He added that: “this virus could go up and down and keep coming back. So please get your tickets and come home.  You don’t have permission to keep X out there any longer… I think you should aim for first week in may to be on a flight”.  The mother responded that there are no flights.  The father then replied:

    Ms Mangal I am doing my best to stay sane. Ignore the emails I sent you the truth is I do not know how to make this work. Eleven thousand miles is inconceivable. It’s up to you to come up with an optional plan not me. I just wasn’t my son…

  6. On 19 April 2020, the mother emailed the father:

    Thank  you  for  your  messages.  I  really  appreciate  working  together  on  this.  Please  can  we  continue  this  conversation  via email  it's  too  hard  to  read  long  messages  via  WhatsApp.

    Firstly,  I  would  like  to  set  the  record  straight.  I  didn't  say  that  I  would  buy  a  house  in  M Town  -  I  never  had  any  any intention  to  do  that.  I  was  planning  to  rent  in  M Town/Z Town  and  for  X  to  go  to  L School.

    Of  course  so  much  has  changed  since  then.  I  have  bought  a  house  [in Australia] and  we  find  ourselves  in  the  middle  of  lockdown  during global  pandemic.  The  whole  situation  is  very  unstable.  As  I  said  before,  I  don't  intend  to  return  whilst  there  is  lockdown  in both  Australia/UK.  We  don't  have  a  home  in  England  and  my  priority  is  safety,  stability  and  security  for  X  -  that  means schooling,  a  home  and  support  here  until  there  is  a  stable  environment  for  X  to  return  to,  both  with  you  and  in  the  wider scheme  of  things.  That  is  my  responsibility  as  primary  carer.

    Yes in  an  ideal  world,  we  would  live  around  the  corner  from  each  other  so  X  could  come  and  go  as  he  pleased,  but  that is  not  the  case  and  we  need  to  accept  the reality  that  we  find  ourselves  in,  both  in  the  short  and  long-term.  I  cannot  live  in England  any  longer,  I  need  to  be  here  for  my  health  and  wellbeing.  I  have  not  been  happy  in  England  for  a  long  time.

    I do  not  intend  to  stay  in  England  other  than  to  sort  my  stuff  out  and  return to Australia  to  create  a  home,  so  it  really  is imperative  that  we  come  to  an  agreement  between  us  in  terms  of  X's  living  arrangements  as  soon  as  possible.  We  both have  his  best  interests  at  heart  and  I  feel  positive  we  can  agree  something  between  us.

    X's  welfare  is  paramount.  That  is  my  primary  concern.  He  needs  a  stable  home/s,  education,  extra-curricular  activities, connection  with  friends,  family  and  quality  time  with  both  of  us.

    We  both  agree  he  needs  the  love,  input  and  support  of  both  parents,  so  I  feel  the  best  way  forward  is for  X  to  live  here  for 6  months  and  with  you  for  6  months.  I  would  be  happy  to  return  to  England  once a  year  for  a  visit  during  the  6  months  with you  and  you  could  do  the  same  this  way,  The  school  here  is  willing  for  X  to  be  enrolled  half  of  the  year  and  I'm  sure H School  would  be  ok  with  that  too.

    In  terms  of  the  school  year  between  2  countries,  I  feel  Jan  -  Jul  in  Australia  and  Jul  -  Jan  in  the  UK  would  work  best  allowing him  to  begin  the  school  year  in  both  places.  That  means  summer  and  Christmas  in  England  and  his  birthday  in  Australia.  Of course  I  can  come  for  Christmas  and  you  could  come  here  for  his  birthday.

    I  do  recognise  how  difficult  it  is  for  you  to  embrace  change,  to  think  with  how  to  move,  where  to  move  to,  deal  with  benefits etc.  but  I  do  believe  where  there's  a  will  there's  a  way.  X  is  adaptable  and  wants  to  be  with  both  of  us.  He  is  happy  when we're  happy.

    I  can't  say  where  you  should  live,  but  either  Country BB  or  Z Town  makes  sense,  In  Z Town,  both  you  and  X  have  connections in  the  area,  with  the  school  and  within  the  community  which  offers  support  for  you  both.  In  Country BB,  of  course  you  have  your family  and  friends.  Depending  where  you  decide  to  be,  mum  Is  also  willing  to  help  out  when  she  is  over  there.  I  know  you  will be  supported  on  benefits  as  a  single  parent.

    I am  happy  to  be  guarantor  on  your  tenancy  agreement  as  long  as  you  have  benefits  in  place  (or  in  process).  I  have  a  whole house  of  furniture  which  I  will  gladly  give  you  to  create  a  home.  It  would  help  X  to  have  some  familiarity  around  him. Layla  is  packing  up  my  house  over  the  next  few  weeks  so it  would  be  good  to  know  what  you  might  want,  if  anything  and  I can  store  it  until  needed  -  I  was  thinking  beds,  sofa/s,  X's  furniture,  toys,  bookcase  and  desk.  The  car  will  be  available  to use  until  I  sell  it.

    Please  trust  that  this  will  all  work  out  [Mr C].  Life  is  calling  for  change  right  now  in  so  many  ways  and  it  makes  no  sense  to resist  life's  flow.  X  is  happy,  bright,  flexible  and  will  be  content  if  we  are  at  peace

  7. On 19 April 2020, the father wrote to the mother via WhatsApp messenger (in spite of her request for correspondence to be by email):

    …If you don’t bring him home you will go to jail so please don’t do that to yourself. Anyhow I will take custody of X and you can go and come when you please.  Revealing that you cannot be in England is unbelievable… Like I said sigh [sic] him over to me and do not act from out there to bring me to court because it means I won’t see X for over a year and if you do that I will press charges against you. I have already spoken with free advice lawyer and in a word you have buried yourself. I am not out to do anything against you just bring home my son. Thanks

  8. On 22 April 2020, the father sent the mother a Whatsapp message:

    Awesome the virus count is dropping. Lockdown will be eased soon. Flights back from Dubai are in flow to London. Might be a good idea to start looking into flights now because it will probably be a few weeks before you can get one.

  9. On 24 April 2020, the mother sent the father an email:

    Thanks for  your  message  via  WhatsApp.  I  want  to  be  clear  where  I  am  at  with  regard  to  returning.

    I  know  you  really  want  X  back  asap,  but  from  my  perspective  as  primary  carer  going  back  to  instability  (no  home, no  school,  no  plan  from  your  side  and  living  in  a  van)  is  not  responsible  nor  viable.  As  I  said  in  my  previous  email, there  are  things  that  need  to  be  in  place  first:

    1.  We need  a  formal  parenting  agreement.

    Are  you  happy  to  agree  50/50  arrangement  as  per  my  email?  You  haven't  responded  to  my  email  other  than  to  say we'll  sort  it  out,  I  want  an  agreement  in  place  before  I  return  so  there  is  some  security  for  everyone  and  so  we  can  set things  in  motion.  Saying  you  will  work  with  me  is  not  the  same  as a  firm  agreement  and  practical  action.  I need  to know  what  your  intention  is  moving  forward.

    2.  The  wider  COVID  situation  must  be  safe  and  stable. ie.  no  virus,  no  lockdown,  schools  open,  free  movement  etc.

    3.  X  needs  a  secure  home,  enrolment  in  school  and  you  need  the  financial  means  to  look  after him.  He  can  stay  with  you  for  a  while,  but  then  what?  You  can’t afford  to  keep  X  for  any  length  of  time  currently and  I  am  not  going  to  lock  myself  into  a  lease  in  England  for  an  unknown  period  of  time.  I  have  nothing  to  go  back  to.

    Living  out  of  a  van  is  not  viable  with  a  child.  You  mentioned  getting  a  council  house  to  X  this  evening.  Have  you applied  for  that?  Are  you  applying  for  Universal  Credit?  Please  let  me  know  your  plans.

    So  what  I  am  saying  is  that  I  will  return  when  these  things  are  in  place.  Until  then,  I  am  staying  here  where  X  can go  to  school,  where  we  have  a  roof  over  our  head  and  where  we  have  family  support.  It's  my  responsibility  as primary  carer  to  provide  all  of  these  things  and  that’s what  I'm  doing.  I  am  not  placing  ourselves  in  a  risky,  unstable situation  unnecessarily.

    As  I said  before,  I  will  help  you  secure  a  flat  and  give  you  some  furniture.  You  need  to  decide  where  you  are  going  to live,  apply  for  benefits  and  find  a  home.

    I  have  now  applied  for  Jobseekers  and  Family  Benefit  here  which  will  replace  what I  receive  currently  in  the  UK.  I  will advise  them  of  the  change  of  circumstances  once  X  is  with  you  half-time  and  it  will  be  adjusted  accordingly.  Once benefits  are  in  place  here,  I  can  cancel  it  in  the  UK.  It  would  be  wise  for  you  to  apply  for  benefits  now  as  a  single parent  in  the  UK  as  it  could  take  time  to  process.

    The  Australian  International  Child  Support  Service  need  to  speak  to  you  in order  for  me  to  receive  benefit  here.  They will  be  in  touch  by  telephone  to  check  your  income  (i.e.  benefits)  and  you  will  need  to  provide  them  with  proof.  Given the  time  difference,  they  will  ring  early  in  the  morning.  I  would  be  grateful  if  you  can  give  them  a  call  on  …  instead  as  it's  unlikely  that  they'll  catch  you  so  early  in  the  morning.  You  need  to  give  them  the  case  number (…)  and  your  benefit  details.

    Please  update  me  with  you  plans  and  let's  get  an  agreement  in  place  so  we  can  have  it  witnessed  by a  solicitor.

  10. On 24 April 2020, the father responded:

    I agreed  to  nothing  more  than  you  going  to  Australia  for  three  months  for  a  break,  for  which  I  have  written  evidence  and  witnesses.  You  cannot  help  the COVID  situation  and  your  flights  being  cancelled.  But  as  of  the  moment  where the  lockdown  in  the  UK  is  lifted,  and  there  are  R Airlines  flights  coming  back  to the  UK,  you  will  be  in  breach  of  that  agreement,  and  have  officially  have  abducted  my  child.

    Given  the  severity  of  this  crime,  there  is  free  legal  support  for  abduction  cases  in  this  country.  The  family  lawyer  said  to  me  that  it  looks  like I  have  a clear case of  abduction.  If  you  do  not  wish  me  to  press  abduction  charges  against  you,  you  have  24  hours to reply to this message stating that you will return our son  to  the  UK  as  soon  as  the  lock  down  is  lifted  by  the  British  Government.  There  are  absolutely  no  condition  on  this.  You  are to  bring home my child,  end  of  story.

    Just  to  be  clear,  you  do  not  have  my  permission to  make  any  arrangements  for  him  to live  there  beyond  the  period  between  now and when  you  can catch  the  fight  home,   as  per  the  above.

    Furthermore,  as  primary  carer  for  X,  it is  your  legal  obligation  to  provide  a  stable  home  for  your  son  in  his  habitual  country  of  residence,  which  is  the UK until  there  is  legal  agreement  otherwise.  You  stopped  court  proceeding  last  year  in  this  regard,  but  nonetheless,  in  order  to  achieve your  end  have constructed  a  situation  where  our  son  does  not  have  a  suitable  home  in  which  to  return  home.  Not  only  does  this  show  a  criminal  level of negligence  in the  care  for  our  son,  you  are  directly  flouting  British  Law.

    […]

    As  I  said,  I  want  it  disclosed  in  writing,  within  twenty  four  hours  (and  it is  now  17.33  BST),  that  you  intend  to  bring  home  our  son,  no  questions  asked,  or I will start  criminal  procedures  against  you.  There  will  be  no  going  back.

  11. The mother wrote to the father on 27 April 2020 which was two weeks after the date on which X and the mother had been supposed to return to the United Kingdom.  She wrote:

    I am  tired  too.  I  agree  it  is  challenging,  but  where  there's  a  will  there's  a  way.  We must  trust  in  life.

    I  had  no  plan  to  come  for  3  months  and  stay,  Not  at  all.  And  clearly  I  didn’t plan  a  global  pandemic!  After  letting  go  of the  path  towards court  last  year,  I  really  did  my  best  to  embrace  life  in  England.

    When  I  sold  my  house,  I  did  so  because  it  felt  right  to  make  a  change.  It  was  obvious  that  life  wanted  me  out  of J Town,  but I  really  had  no  idea  where  to  go  -  there  wasn’t anywhere  in  England  I  truly  wanted  to  be.  I  chose M Town/Z Town  because I felt  L School  would  be  good  for  X  and  we  have  connections  in  the  area.

    The pull  Australia  is  strong  [Mr C].  I  just  can't  be  in  England  anymore  to  live.  I  expressed  this  to  you  soon  after  arriving in  February  when  I  realised  again  how  important  it  is  for  me  to  be here.  At  that  point,  I  thought  might  be  able  to  live  in both  countries,  but  it’s just  not  viable  for  many  reasons,  I  need  to  work  and  ground  in  one  place.  It  is  better  for  X that  I  am  settled  where  I  can  provide  familiarity,  stability  and  a  home  for  him.

    I am  sorry  it  is  bringing  challenge,  but  I  must  remain  true  to  my  heart  and  my  heart  is  here.  I  really  have  done  my  best to  make  it  work  in  England,  but  over  the  past  few  years  even  my  work  has  dried  up.

    I  didn’t plan  to  buy  a  house  and  didn’t go  looking.  It  found  me  and  I  responded  because  it  felt  right.  It  is  clear  life  is calling  for  me  to  be  here.  I've  not  felt  happier  in  years  and  not  for  any  reason  other  than  I feel  ‘at home’.  I  am  living  in my  own  home  for  the  first  time  ever  in  Australia  and  near  my  family  for  the  first  time  in  24  years  -  it  is  deeply grounding  and  healing  and  I  see  X  is  happy.  He  is  adaptable  and  loves  it  here.

    I  really  think  we  can  work  this  out  and  X  will  benefit  from  experiencing  the  fullness  of  life  in  Australia,  England  and Country BB.  After  all,  he  is  bi-cultural. (emphasis added)

  12. The mother has a certain literacy style but her turn of phrase in the parts of her email in italics is remarkable in that it expresses a professed lack of agency, which suggests an unwillingness to accept full responsibility for matters initiated, controlled and executed by her. 

  13. The mother deposes at paragraphs 77 and 78 of her affidavit that, by May 2020, she had decided that she would not return to the United Kingdom but had not decided that she would not send X back to the United Kingdom.  She says that she “tried to make arrangements with [Mr C]”.  The mother added that she made the decision to not to return herself “because here [she has] stability and [is] close to [her] family in Australia”.  The father deposes that he believes the mother sold her home in the United Kingdom in April/May 2020 for £480,000 GBP and that the home was unencumbered.

  14. On 10 May 2020, the father wrote to the mother three times via Facebook:

    When the quarantine and lock down is up I am happy to travel to quatar [sic] or Dubai or wherever to pick him up and bring him home.  We could then begin to sort out how we can operate between the two of us which we will sort out for definite. Just a thought.

    You could drop him to Dubai etc and I take him from there.

    I also need him six weeks back before school for enrolling etc. H School said they would be delighted to have X back but six weeks prior is needed for enrolling.

  15. On 14 May 2020, the father sent an email to the mother:

    Morning,  hope  you're  doing  good.  I  am  just  sharing  thoughts  because  I  feel  I need  to.  I  am  not  saying  any  of  this  is the  case.  I  am just  relaying  it  because  I  am  in  this  side of  the  water  and  I  want  to  make  sure  X  is  safe  and protected from all things.

    I  say  things  to  him  about  home  sometimes  and  he  appears  distant  from  the  answer,  Like  he  is  a  little  bag  of  subtle confusion.  I  just  wanted  to  make  sure  you  are  not  subtly  creating  confusion  for  him.  Perhaps  planting  ideas  about  dad not  having  money  or  a  home  onto  take  care  of  him,  Or  dad  has  nine  years  and  he  never  got  a  place  etc.

    Point  being:  subtle  confusion  can  create  an  uncertainty  in  a  child  and  a  child  will  naturally  stay  where  they  feel  most safe.  Again  I  am  not  saying  this  is  going  on.  However,  if  it is,  I  will  find  out  as  soon  as  he  is  in  my  arms  again.  X loves  his  dad  to  bits.  Everyone  knows  that,

    My  nephew  Mr AA  rang  me  and  suggested  I  watch  out  for  things  like  that.  He  was  taken  away  from  my  brother  when he  was  eight  too.  He  said  he  remembers  all  the  subtle  things  his  mum  places  in  him  about  my  dad  and  why  he  had to  remain  in  England.  By  the  time  he  was  a  teenager  he  was  in  a  rage  because  trust  was  destroyed.  As  an  adult,  he knows  exactly  what  went  on  and  I  won't  share  his  truth  about  it  now.

    Please understand  my  need  to  express  this.  You  just  don’t know  what  its  like  to  be  on  the  receiving  end  of  such uncertainty  about  one’s child  and  so  far  away  from  him.  I  just  wanted  to  make  sure  he  is  safe  and  his  you  g developing  mind  is  respected.

    By  the  way,  the  your  airline  is  flying  from  Sydney  to  Lon  from  next  week.  Be good  for  chat  on  fine  soon if  you  fancy.

    Don't  take  any of  the  above  to  heart,  Just  a  dad  doing  what  dads  do.

  1. The above provisions are suggestions for consideration by the parents.  They may come up with other means by which to implement X’s return to the UK at the mother’s expense.  If the SCA, the mother and the Independent Children's Lawyer are unable to reach agreement by late-January 2021, I will reconvene and determine all issues then outstanding.  To that extent, I do not regard myself as functus officio.  As indicated by me at the hearing, I would not countenance X being required to serve a quarantine period in the United Kingdom either alone or accompanied by the mother or the father.  Quarantine is not an appropriate place for a child.  I did not consider the father’s proposal of meeting X at the airport on the other side of customs to be emotionally safe for X.  If the mother will not escort X to England to settle him there, the father will have to come to Australia, clear customs, serve his quarantine at least 3 or so days before he and X depart Australia for the UK. 

  2. I suspect that the parents will be assisted by further mediation on these issues, now the main decision is known.  If they can work out how the decision can be best implemented for X they should proceed to negotiate and try to agree on parenting arrangements going forward.  The parents are an unusual pair.  I do not have a clear picture of how they operate as a couple but I have a very clear picture of X having managed, to date, to obtain the best standard of parenting that each has to offer.  I hope that will continue. 

  3. My Associate will be in contact with the parties in early February 2021 to arrange a re-listing of the matter so that it can be finalised.

    CONDITIONS ON RETURN

  4. The Court reconvened on 9 March 2021 to hear submissions in relation to the final form of the Order.  Each party submitted a minute.  The points of contention are:

    (a)who should pay for the cost of returning X to the United Kingdom,

    (b)where the handover of X should take place and whether X and the father take their return flight from Sydney or Brisbane

    (c)what conditions precedent should bear on the child’s departure.

  5. I refused leave to the applicant to file 420 plus pages of affidavit and annexures and for the mother to file an affidavit as to her financial circumstances.  To do otherwise, would have required each to re-open their case.  They have each had since late December 2021 to exchange information.  Notably, the parents mediated with Q Services prior to the hearing, specifically to prepare for outcomes.  Formulation of any conditions to return should have been considered by each parent on the basis of X returning to England and staying in Australia.  The applicant and the respondent mother had ample opportunity to adduce evidence about conditions to return during the hearing.  It is wholly inappropriate to expect the court to digest 450 pages of print on the morning of a hearing.

    Cost of return

  6. The mother’s position was that she and the father should share the costs of return.  She was prepared to fund up to $5,469 payable as to $4,000 by way of forgiving child support arrears owing by the father to her and as to $1,469 in cash.  The applicant sought an order that the mother be responsible for the cost of the father’s airfare to Australia and the return airfares for the father and X to England together with the cost of the father’s quarantine of $2,800 to $3,000 once he lands in Australia.  In my view the costs of the father’s forward journey to Australia and compulsory quarantine are part of the costs of return.  The mother presented bank balances to the court in support of submission that she could not afford to pay airfares.  Ms Saladino submitted that the mother’s eligibility for legal aid ought to also satisfy me that her client is without funds for airfares over and above her offer to forgive child support and pay a very modest amount.  Requests for previous statements on the three accounts disclosed by the mother produced a fourth account not previously disclosed through which the mother had received the $120,000 since last June.  The statement of one Suncorp account which the mother produced to verify a balance of $1,057 disclosed that, immediately prior to providing the statement of balance she produced to the court, the mother had made payments from that account of totalling approximately $6,500 for work to be done on her laundry and some roof repairs.  It was the mother’s case that the father has previously required financial support from her so she could not have thought that he would have funds at his disposal to recover X.  In point of fact, however, the father has apparently accumulated some $7,000, which I also take into account.

  7. In the last 12 months the mother has purchased her house in W Town for $740,000 which she holds unencumbered, she has had the use of about $120,000 of funds which represented the proceeds of sale of her van and the monies from the sale of real property in London which were not needed to complete her purchase in W Town.  The mother expended those funds in the knowledge that it would be the father, not herself, who would need to take X back to England if this court so ordered.  In the circumstances, the mother ought to pay the airfares and quarantine costs.  That said, I do not want the recovery of the money to delay X’s departure.  Any of the requesting parents own funds expended can be recovered from the mother in either this court or in the courts in the United Kingdom.  Some will be offset by child support arrears.  Other funds can be obtained from a refund of the un-used portion of the return air tickets which the mother purchased to come to Australia.  Those monies will come from R Airlines which cannot be used as a carrier because that would entail the father and X having to serve a period of quarantine on return to England.

    Location of handover and port for return

  8. The next issue is the location of handover and at which port X should exit Australia.  The mother sought Brisbane because the Family Consultant who prepared the Regulation 26 report is in Brisbane.  However, the Family Consultant has no further task in this proceeding.  The applicant sought flexibility for the father to be able to fly out of whichever port is most economical and convenient for him.  I agree.  The handover should be in the same state as the mother resides in case the Australian Federal Police have to intervene to collect X.  However, the father should be free to arrange their return flight from whichever city he chooses.

  9. The parties are agreed that X and/or the requesting parent should not serve a period of quarantine on arriving back in England and that X’s departure can be delayed until that is the case.  Quarantine is distinct from being required to isolate at home which everyone anticipates both X and the father will have to do for ten days or five days if released early.

    Covid-19

  10. Finally, the mother sought that X not be required to return until Smartraveller indicates that conditions are “acceptable” in England.  This is apparently in relation to the prevalence, dangers of and restrictions associated with the pandemic.  Earlier in these reason,[7] I commented on the lack of evidence at trial relevant to the mother’s contention that the pandemic is a component of the grave risk of harm exception to return.  It is to be noted that those comments were published to the parties, in draft, on 23 December 2020 and this mention to settle orders in final form takes place more than two months later.

    [7] [133] and [134].

  11. Earlier in these reasons I referred to Smartraveller’s status reports as something that the parties may have considered adopting as a benchmark.  However, it is not a reference point which I would impose upon them.  Smartraveller is designed for Australians travelling overseas, as X is.  However, X is returning to England as his place of habitual residence.  The relevant information is what requirements the authorities have imposed in England for travellers coming into England.

  12. The parties are agreed that X and/or the requesting parent should not serve a period of quarantine on arriving back in England and that X’s departure can be delayed until that is the case.  Quarantine is distinct from being required to ‘isolate at home’ which all parties anticipate both X and the father will have to do for ten days or five days if released early.

    Start of the English school year

  13. The mother sought that X’s return be close to the start of the English school year on 1 September 2021.  I will not delay X’s return until just before the start of the English school year.  X should be back at school in England as soon as possible.

    CONCLUSION

  14. I am satisfied that X be returned to the United Kingdom as soon as it is safe and practicable for him to do so.  I am satisfied that the orders set out at the commencement of these reasons facilitate a safe return.

I certify that the preceding one hundred and seventy-two (172) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of the Honourable Justice Bennett.

Associate:

Dated:       11 March 2021


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