BETROS & BETROS

In the matter of *Betros & Betros*, the father sought orders concerning the children, alleging neglect of their medical needs by the mother. The court was required to determine whether there had been a significant change in the children's circumstances since previous final parenting orders were made, and if so, what orders were in the best interests of the children regarding their living arrangements, time spent with each parent, and parental responsibility.

The court considered the allegations of neglect and the risk of physical abuse, finding no evidence to support these claims against the mother. Crucially, the court found that the father had perpetrated family violence and that the children had suffered psychological harm as a result of his abuse. The court applied the principles that the best interests of the children are paramount, requiring protection from harm and the benefit of a meaningful relationship with each parent, while also considering the nature of the children's relationships and the effect of any change in circumstances. The court also assessed the parental capacity of each parent and the desirability of making orders least likely to lead to further proceedings.

Ultimately, the court discharged all previous orders. The mother was granted sole parental responsibility, and the children were ordered to live with her. The father was granted supervised time with the children every second month at a contact service, with the father bearing the costs. The father was also permitted to communicate with the children via letters and gifts on specific occasions, provided the letters did not denigrate the mother or her family. The mother was ordered to continue consulting with a therapist and to facilitate the children's participation in the ANCHOR Program. The father was restrained from discussing certain matters with the children and from approaching them outside of the ordered supervised time. The father may apply to lift the supervision requirement upon undertaking significant therapy and demonstrating insight into his behaviour and its impact on the children.