Bamford and Bamford

In the matter of *Bamford and Bamford*, Watts J considered parenting orders concerning the children Y and Z. The dispute involved the arrangements for the children's living situation, parental responsibility, and time spent with each parent.

The court was required to determine the primary residence of the children, the allocation of sole parental responsibility, and the specific terms of the father's time with the children. Additionally, the court needed to address communication protocols between the parents, including the exchange of information regarding the children's schooling and medical treatment, and the use of a communication book. The court also considered provisions for contact arrangements, including special provisions for birthdays and school holidays, as well as restraints on parental behaviour and the role of an Independent Children's Lawyer.

Watts J discharged previous parenting orders and made new orders reflecting a primary care arrangement with the mother, who was granted sole parental responsibility. The court detailed specific time arrangements for the father, including regular weekend contact, holiday periods, and special occasions, with provisions for changeovers at a Children's Contact Service for an initial period. The orders also established communication methods, including a communication book and designated times for telephone calls, and imposed restraints on denigrating the other parent or physically chastising the children. The court further ordered that the father be restrained from attending the mother's residence and that the Independent Children's Lawyer explain the orders to the children. The father was permitted to attend school events after discussing attendance with the children.

By consent, the parties were ordered to pay one half of the costs of the Independent Children's Lawyer as agreed or assessed. The parenting orders concerning the children's time with their father were to expire when the children turned 15, after which time arrangements would be as agreed between the children and their father.